Amanda and Lindsey have been matched for 10 years. They were nominated by their Match Support Specialist, Allegra:
“From the very beginning, Lindsey formed a strong bond with her Big Sister, Amanda. Her mom, Jennifer, recalls Lindsey feeling so close to Amanda that she didn’t want to share her—especially when Amanda started dating her now-husband. Lindsey’s initial worries about “losing” Amanda turned into a heartwarming opportunity for growth, as Amanda reassured her that their bond was unbreakable. Years later, they now laugh about those moments, a testament to how Amanda has helped Lindsey feel secure and confident in their relationship.
Even as Amanda’s life changed – getting married and starting a family – her unwavering dedication to Lindsey has remained constant. She always finds time to be present, whether attending events in person or cheering Lindsey on through Facebook Live. Amanda’s ability to make Lindsey feel seen and valued has had a transformative impact on her.
Before meeting Amanda, Lindsey was shy and hesitant to try new things. But with Amanda’s encouragement, she blossomed. Today, she’s outgoing and courageous and involved in a variety of activities—showing cows for 4-H, playing sports, and participating in cheerleading. Amanda has been her biggest cheerleader every step of the way, providing a steady source of confidence and support.
Amanda’s impact goes beyond fun and hobbies. When Lindsey faces challenges, whether it’s schoolwork or friend drama, Amanda is her trusted confidant, guiding her through problems with patience and wisdom. Jennifer says that Lindsey has grown into someone willing to take on challenges and embrace new experiences, thanks to Amanda’s influence.
As a single mom with a busy schedule, Jennifer initially signed up for Big Brothers Big Sisters hoping Lindsey would benefit from a mentor. She couldn’t have imagined how incredible the relationship would become. Amanda has been a consistent presence, even during the pandemic, dropping off care packages and crafts, staying connected through calls and texts, and never missing a special occasion.
Jennifer describes Amanda as someone who’s “always there in spirit” for Lindsey, even when life gets hectic. Lindsey proudly tells everyone about her Big Sister and treasures the quality time they spend together, from arts and crafts to pottery and painting.”